Change at making

how many times in life we all want to make big changes and we have everything all in place and we still wonder why its not working , when you check your intention is good all you want to do is for the sake of Allah , when you check the means you want to use to achieve your goal they are all halal and according to Islam but you still wonder why its not working . most of time we will try to console ourselves by saying any good things take time then you get this but i am making steps and nothing seems to work and their is a lot of confusion going on and because we don't want to back of then we get depressed and all but we forget to really check ourselves .

see most of time when we are making changes that are suppose to be affecting not an individual but a group we fail to check ourselves because most times we are UNDECIDED meaning we still want to make changes but we want to hold on to some stuff and we want to please everyone at the same time , well  unfortunately it doesn't work like that because change is what will remove you from your comfort zone . that thing that you will have to sacrifice almost everything because you know no mat ta what it will be of positive effect to those people 

i believe loving people doesn't necessary mean to do what they want you to do or you always care of what they think of you or fishing compliments from them every time and worrying if they ever have any doubt about what you do well we forget love and how to love is also a test from Allah , when someone is sick what do we tell them Allah loves you and He is trying to purify your sins , we are told that believers life begin after death and this world is not a place of enjoyment for believers but they suffer to get to janah well do you think this kind of love is a joke if we think about it using our lay mans mind we will not agree as it being love but the truth is that is true love so why now choose that the only way to love people is for them to be comfortable with you .

we have to decide when we are making changes that who we are really changing for is it our mother, father , sisters , wife, husband , friends, our children name it and then we again check how will this change affect them when its good and they don't like it then what , that's where the problem comes if we change for people will always fail we need to change for only Allah and with that we know we will have to sacrifice so much by the end of the day its for our own good and Allah has narrated so many stories for us to contemplate one of them n my favorite for change is story of prophet Ibrahim may Allah be pleased with him for him to be Allah friend was not a joke we saw how much he gave up .

so all those making changes be DECIDED know whatever change you want to make if you will not sacrifice most things you love and suffer a bit before success then know your not making any change and check yourself and know all you do Allah is testing you and if u decide to serve him be sure you will have great test which has great result if you pass and that is JANAH (MAY ALLAH MAKE US BE AMONG THOSE WHO MAKE CHANGES AND GET OUR SUCCESS OF JANAH AMEEN)