PEACE AT HEART

Bismillah Rahmani Rahim .... Peace and Blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad , His family and Companions.

O you who believe, seek help through steadfastness and the Contact Prayers (salat). Allah is with those who steadfastly persevere.
This verse states that we should seek help in prayer ,this means that when we pray we should attain peace and be protected from sins .

Have u ever felt your praying but things are not right , u try your best to be regular in your prayers but still feel a certain emptiness in your heart , u are not sure whats wrong as you feel prayer should itself grant you the peace of heart . then you start feeling your doing something wrong but your not sure because u feel your trying your level best , shaitan might even whisper that your prayers are not accepted and worse u might start slagging a bit because u feel u dont need to be miserable if your praying . 

The soul also recognizes when u deprive it from its food , that is the closeness of Allah , the beauty of that feeling of guilt is that it sends a certain direction towards you wanting to know exactly whats wrong , it makes you hate the situation your in and you want to find ways to attain the inner peace , Alhamdulillah if one is persistent in trying to find the cure for the empty feeling they sure get it healed . 

Shaitan on the other hand  wants you to get immune to that guilt feeling so that u dont feel anything at all  after a while and when you actually choose to ignore it thats when you find yourself really lost and he makes it more harder to find your way back because you feel you have done too much damage already, then makes you think that your so much of a sinner and you have no way back just live that life your used to .

Often time i would say we fail to be realistic with ourselves , we are in denial that their are some acts of obidience we ignore or maybe we feel you dont have the strength to do it . or your  not ready to be more than average yet , or you fear your opportunities . learn to check yourself , ask yourself what are you doing wrong and be very honest with yourself , then seek forgiveness dont assume your not ready to leave it so your post ponding forgiveness just seek forgiveness anyways , another thing is add on some good deeds , fight that guilt by reeping out something good , it can be anything like saying hi to someone who you havent spoken for a while that happiness you give them might bring out blessings , or listen to a good lecture or recite Quran with a beautiful voice. keep off that sin you have spotted or try to reduce it to the minimum level , stop wasting time , seek knowledge we have so many ways Alhamdulillah this days for seeking knowledge , then try your best to minimize eating , sleeping and talking ... this remedies were given by ibn Qayyim May Allah be pleased with him .
PARADISE AND HELL WERE BOTH CREATED FOR SINNERS THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS REPENTANCE ....

How to attain happiness

Bismillah Rahamn Rahim

we all are seeking for happiness , we are all looking for that one person who will make us happy , we like environments that makes us happy , everyone is protecting themselves from anything that will ruin their happiness . all this we try to seek but its all temporary .

recently i found someone who really made me happy , this person was more than what i have ever imagined and they came in the most un expected way , unfortunately as much as we wanted to keep each other happy for a longer time we had to face situation that we have to let go . i felt sad because i enjoyed how those people made me feel , i dint want to loose them because i felt they were the reason for my happiness , ever since i have been on the verge of saying goodbye i found that am upset with myself , i have develop a quck reaction to anger and i get irritated so easily .

then i found myself talking to a friend of mine regarding happiness , and it hit me , i have been a victim of my own self, i ask myself was i not happy before i met this person , why do i have to forget myself and my happiness just because they left . i realise its because i was the receiver . the person who made me happy was the one who was already happy so they were only sharing the happiness they already had, as for me i was only the reciever of the happiness.

so what happens when the happiness siezed then i feel sad because the space is empty and now i had to find ways of feeling up that space thats y i was very easy to get upset because of the internal frustration of having not to receive that happiness . then i realised one thing i forgot to make myself happy while recieveing the happiness .

this is the situation that most of us have , we look for happiness from external sources forgeting we have to be the ones happy first before we even be part of others happiness . once you learn to be happy then youl be sure to easily appreciate when your recieve extra happiness and you be able to move on when that extra happiness is taken from you because the largest part of happiness which is you is still there with you .

happiness should start from you before you think of giving it to others , learn to be a giver and not a receiver , learn to be the unconditional source because you are already contended so youl be harmed less and ul benefit more .

whats your attraction

In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious Most Merciful , Peace and Blessings Be upon the last messenger Muhammad ....

We live in a world where judgement of beauty has shifted to be outer rather than the inside , we have  more plastic surgeries clinic than orphanages . everyone is busy either loosing weight , keeping fit, eating organic or doing a boob job or butt job . everyone is busy making their physics more attractive and strangly its not only the disease of women but men also are becoming plastic .

Ourselves we are comprised of two elements for us to be named living beings , that is the soul and the body , the body is the outer cover of the soul , without the soul the body is considered dead and would literally not function and we all know that . The mistakes we make is that we forget about our souls and we are busy with our body and by the time we realize the soul is almost departing .

The attraction of the soul is what reflects the real you , because nomata how much u spend on making your body attractive if your soul is not attractive then be sure they will always be a but after mentioning your body , would want to hear people saying shes beautiful but ugly inside that the time when the outer beauty is old or gone then no one associates with you because of your in attractive soul.

Attractiveness of the soul includes virtues , a soul that has elements of goodness within it , this are things one is known for , they define you , they are what u subject yourself to and they are what makes you the person you are. we identify you by your charactiristcs which are derived from the attractiveness of the soul and this attributes are what u carry to your grave .

Some of the attributes of an attractive soul is being God fearing , why this is the 1st element is because when you learn to fear Allah then u will know the duties of the soul same as the body so u will automatically have attractive body because ul understand taking care of the body is part of your duties to your Maker. Humility , Respect ,Love , Care , Kindness, Generosity, Courage , Wisdom e.t.c

Some people will claim that when you have element of goodness you are a subject of weakness , respect shouldnt be earn through fear but the best respect should be earn through love . being courageous doesnt mean you dont fear but it means you have the ability to fight fear , saying sorry doesnt mean your humiliated it rather means you are smart enough to understand love is one key missing , rudeness is lame , people should learn to understand that being virtues is more success than being beautiful .